Feedback that helps: reporting verbs for giving useful feedback

About this lesson

Learners practice reporting verbs such as suggest, admit and encourage in this B2 English for IT lesson plan on feedback at work.

Grammar
Patterns after reporting verbs: -ing after suggest and admit, a person + to after encourage and warn, to after offer, and that after explain: She suggested splitting the ticket.
Topic
Feedback after a sprint demo, given in the SBI model (Situation, Behavior, Impact), with words such as observable, judgment, blind spot and act on.
Activities
A true story about the SBI model, a designer's messages to a tech lead, their practice call, self-checking drills, a feedback chat, open boxes of SBI tasks, and feedback to write and record.

What's inside

  1. Chapter 1Warm-up: Great Job?!

    • PictureUnlock
    • Spin the wheel and talk about feedback at workSpin the wheelUnlock
    • Study the feedback vocabularyVocabularyTry it
    • Choose the word for each pictureChoose by pictureUnlock
  2. Chapter 2The Story: Situation, Behavior, Impact

    • Read the story of the SBI modelArticleUnlock
    • Choose the correct answer about the storyQuizUnlock
  3. Chapter 3At Work: Take Two

    • Read Amara's messages to KenjiReal-life documentTry it
    • True or false? Check the messagesTrue or falseUnlock
    • Sort the feedback lines into Situation, Behavior and ImpactSort into columnsUnlock
  4. Chapter 4Listen: Feedback on the Feedback

    • Listen to Amara and Kenji's practice callListeningTry it
    • Transcript, for the teacherUnlock
    • Choose the correct answer: what did they say?QuizUnlock
  5. Chapter 5Grammar: Who Suggested What?

    • Study the scheme: reporting verbsGrammar schemeTry it
    • Sort the verbs into the correct columnsSort into columnsUnlock
    • Choose the correct report of what each person saidQuizUnlock
    • Fill in the gaps: report what they said with the verb in bracketsFill in the gapsTry it
    • Is the sentence correct? True or falseTrue or falseUnlock
    • Choose the correct option: Amara's notes from her one-on-oneChoose the optionUnlock
  6. Chapter 6Speak Up: Feedback Goes Both Ways

    • Choose the best replies in a feedback callChatTry it
    • Open a box: give and receive feedback in SBIOpen the boxUnlock
  7. Chapter 7Homework: Feedback They Can Use

    • Read your phrase bankReal-life documentUnlock
    • Choose the correct option: Iryna's message to KenjiChoose the optionUnlock
    • Match the sentence halvesMatchUnlock
    • Write SBI feedback for a colleague and report the replyWriting, checked by the teacherUnlock
    • Record your spoken SBI feedbackSpeaking, checked by the teacherUnlock

Vocabulary

12 words and phrases from the lesson, each with a picture and audio in edio.

+9 more with pictures and audio in the lessonMore words

  • a judgment
  • intent
  • a blind spot
  • a growth area
  • a pat on the back
  • encourage
  • admit
  • point out
  • act on

Grammar: reporting verbs and their patterns

He said I should practice is correct, but reported speech gets sharper when the verb says what the speaker did: he suggested it, she admitted it, he offered. Reporting a feedback call, learners choose the verb, then the pattern it needs: -ing, to, a person + to, or that.

Reporting verbs: what people said in a feedback talk

Choose a verb that says what the speaker did (suggested, admitted, offered…), then use its pattern: -ing, to, person + to, or that.

Four patterns after reporting verbs

Suggest, recommend, admit and deny take -ing: She admitted going too fast. Encourage, advise, remind and warn take a person + to. Offer, agree and refuse take to alone, and apologize takes for + -ing: Amara apologized for raising it.

PatternVerbsExample
verb + -ingsuggest, recommend, admit, denyKenji suggested practicing it out loud.
verb + that + clausesuggest, recommend, admit, deny, explain, point out, agreeKenji pointed out that “messy” was a judgment.
verb + person + to + verbencourage, advise, remind, warn (also tell, ask, persuade)He encouraged Amara to give the feedback live.
verb + to + verboffer, agree, refuse (also promise)Kenji offered to play Iryna.
verb + for + -ingapologize (to someone) forAmara apologized for raising it.
not + to / -ingnot goes before to or the -ing formHe warned her not to start with a question.

From what was said to the report

Start from the words, then name what the speaker did. Why don't you practice it out loud? becomes He suggested practicing it out loud. Don't start with that question becomes He warned her not to start, with not before to.

What they said

  • “Why don't you practice it out loud?”
  • “I can play Iryna.”
  • “You should give the feedback live.”
  • “Sorry I raised it.”
  • “Don't start with that question.”

How you report it

  • He suggested practicing it out loud.
  • He offered to play Iryna.
  • He encouraged her to give the feedback live.
  • She apologized for raising it.
  • He warned her not to start with that question.

Suggest, advise and explain: the tricky three

Suggest never takes a person + to; use -ing or that: She suggested that we show one screen. Advise takes -ing, or a person + to: He advised me to wait. Explain needs to before the person: She explained to me that the demo had run over.

  • suggest / recommend: -ing for the idea (She suggested showing one screen), or that + base form to say who should do it (She suggested that we show one screen).
  • advise without a person takes -ing: He advised waiting until Monday. With a person: He advised me to wait.
  • explain takes to before the person: She explained to me that the demo had run over.
  • admit + -ing or that; with to, use -ing: She admitted (to) going too fast.
  • apologize for + -ing: He apologized for being late.
  • In the past, a that-clause usually moves one tense back: “I'm nervous.” → She admitted that she was nervous. Not after suggest and recommend (see above).

Why not just said?

Said is always possible, but it hides what the speaker did. In one-on-one notes, one verb carries the act: Kenji offered to play Iryna. Iryna explained that the demo had already run over. In the past, a that-clause usually moves one tense back, except after suggest and recommend.

Said is correct, but…

“He said that I should practice” is fine. But reporting verbs tell the story in one word: he suggested it, she admitted it, he offered, she warned you. Use them in one-on-one notes and feedback summaries, and check the pattern each verb needs.

From today's lesson

  • Kenji offered to play Iryna in a practice call.
  • “Iryna” explained that the demo had already run over.
  • Amara apologized for raising the problem, and the impact disappeared.
  • Kenji advised her to thank Iryna and give the impact anyway.
  • Amara suggested showing one screen at a time.
  • Kenji warned her not to start with “Can I give you some feedback?”

Typical mistakes

  • She suggested me to split the ticket.

    She suggested splitting the ticket. / She suggested that I split the ticket.

    suggest + -ing or that, never + person + to

  • He recommended to use a feature flag.

    He recommended using a feature flag.

    recommend + -ing or that, not to + verb

  • I admitted to forget the impact.

    I admitted forgetting the impact. / I admitted that I had forgotten the impact.

    admit + -ing or that; after admit to, use -ing

  • She explained me that the demo had run over.

    She explained (to me) that the demo had run over.

    explain to someone, never explain someone

More lessons on this grammar: Reported speech lessons and exercises

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What's in the lesson

  • 13 auto-checked exercises
  • 2 games
  • 2 teacher-checked tasks
  • 2 real-life documents
  • 1 article
  • 1 grammar scheme
  • 1 set of word cards
  • 1 audio clip
  • 1 picture
  • 1 transcript

The main objectives of this lesson are to:

  • report advice and admissions with each verb's pattern: He suggested practicing it out loud. She admitted going too fast.
  • use a person + to after encourage, advise, remind and warn: He warned her not to start with a question.
  • avoid three classic slips: suggested me to, recommended to use, explained me that
  • give SBI feedback on a real moment, from the situation to the impact, then ask about intent: What were you trying to show there?

Lesson 23 sits in the middle of Growing your career, unit 8 of English for IT B2 · Beyond the Code, a unit on feedback, retros and career talk. It takes the reported speech of English for IT B1 lesson 20 (She said that…, He asked if…) further, to verbs that name what the speaker did, and lesson 24 asks for SBI feedback again when learners lead a retro.

After a spin-the-wheel talk about feedback at work, learners meet twelve words on cards with pictures and audio, among them blind spot, point out and act on. The story explains the SBI model, Situation, Behavior, Impact, taught by the Center for Creative Leadership. In Amara's messages to Kenji, a vague Great demo! turns into SBI feedback; students check them and sort feedback lines into the three steps, then hear the two practice the talk in an AI-voiced call. The scheme leads into five self-checking drills, from sorting verbs by their pattern to Amara's notes from the call. In the speaking chapter, students receive feedback on a demo in a chat and give some back, then open boxes for SBI role-plays and discussion.

Homework begins with a phrase bank, then a choice of verbs in a message to the tech lead and a sentence-halves match, both self-checking. Students then write SBI feedback for a colleague, report the reply with at least four reporting verbs and record the feedback as if on a call, for the teacher to review.

Grammar:
reporting verbs · verb patterns after reporting verbs
Topic:
feedback · one-on-ones · the SBI model

Teaching tips

  • Start from feedback learners really got: each writes down the last vague comment they heard at work, such as Nice work!, and rewrites it in SBI form before reading the messages.
  • Stop the practice call at It wasn't a big deal: ask what happened to the impact and what the speaker could say instead, then play on to hear her second try.
  • Turn the open-box role-plays into a reporting drill: after each feedback talk, partners write three lines of notes with suggested, admitted and offered, then compare versions.
  • Set one ground rule for in-company groups: feedback practice uses invented or public moments, never a colleague in the room, unless both people agree.

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Questions about this lesson

What are reporting verbs?
Reporting verbs are verbs that say what a speaker did, not just said: suggest, admit, offer, encourage, warn, explain. You should give it live becomes He encouraged her to give it live, and I can play her becomes He offered to play her. Each verb has its own pattern, so learn it with what follows. Feedback that helps, a B2 English for IT lesson on edio.ai, reports a whole feedback call this way.
What are some common reporting verbs?
Common reporting verbs include suggest, admit, offer, encourage and explain, and each names a different act: you suggest or recommend an idea, admit or deny a fact, offer, agree or refuse to do something, encourage, advise, remind or warn someone, point out a problem and apologize for a mistake. In a feedback summary they replace a row of said: She pointed out that the filter was hard to find.
What patterns follow reporting verbs?
Most reporting verbs take -ing, to, a person + to, or that: She recommended using a feature flag. He encouraged me to present. He offered to help. She pointed out that the demo had run over. Some take two patterns: suggest and admit also work with that. For a negative, put not first: He warned her not to start with a question. Apologize takes for + -ing.
Is it "suggested me to" or "suggested that I"?
Say suggested that I + base form, or suggested + -ing: She suggested that I split the ticket. She suggested splitting the ticket. Suggest never takes a person + to, so She suggested me to split it is wrong. After suggest that, American English keeps the base form for every person: He suggested that she practice it out loud. Recommend works the same way: He recommended using a feature flag, not recommended to use.
Is it "explain me" or "explain to me"?
It's explain to me, because explain needs to before a person: Can you explain to me how the filter works? You can also leave the person out: She explained that the demo had run over. Tell is different, since it takes the person directly: She told me that… A drill in Feedback that helps, a B2 lesson on edio.ai, offers explained me as a wrong option.
Is it "admitted to forget" or "admitted forgetting"?
It's admitted forgetting or admitted to forgetting: after admit, a verb takes -ing, with or without to. I admitted forgetting the impact. A that-clause works too: I admitted that I had forgotten the impact. Deny takes the same patterns: He denied changing the filter. Feedback that helps on edio.ai sets admitted to forget as a trap in a true-or-false drill.
What is the SBI feedback model?
The SBI model is a three-step feedback method: Situation, Behavior, Impact, taught by the Center for Creative Leadership. You say when and where it happened, describe only what you saw or heard, then say what effect it had: In today's sprint demo, you started with a real problem from a merchant, and everyone understood why the feature matters. CCL says this makes feedback less stressful to give and less likely to make people defensive.
How do you give SBI feedback?
Give SBI feedback in three short parts, then ask a question: the situation (In yesterday's code review…), the behavior (…you wrote “this is wrong” on three comments without saying why) and the impact (…the review took two extra days). Keep the behavior to facts, not labels like rude or messy. Then ask about intent, the fourth step CCL described in 2025: What were you trying to show there?
What's the difference between a behavior and a judgment in feedback?
A behavior is observable; a judgment labels the person. You interrupted me twice while I was presenting describes a behavior anyone could see; You were rude is a judgment, and people argue with judgments. Words like messy and lazy, or You always…, turn feedback into a label and skip the situation. Kenji's first reply in Feedback that helps, a B2 lesson on edio.ai, points out that messy is a judgment.
What does it mean to act on feedback?
To act on feedback means to do something because of what you were told: She acted on his advice and showed one screen at a time. Specific feedback is easy to act on; Great job! is not, because it doesn't say what to repeat or change. After useful feedback, a good reply is Thanks for pointing that out.
How do I teach reporting verbs to B2 adults?
Have learners report a conversation they have just heard, so each verb names something real: He offered to play her. She apologized for raising it. Then group the verbs by pattern on the board, -ing, to, a person + to and that, and drill the traps: suggested me to, explained me that. The B2 English for IT lesson Feedback that helps on edio.ai builds its drills around one practice feedback call.
Are there interactive exercises for reporting verbs?
Yes: a reporting gap-fill and a feedback chat flag slips like suggested me to the moment they happen. This page plays four parts of Feedback that helps, a B2 English for IT lesson on edio.ai, without an account: Amara's messages to Kenji, their practice call, a gap-fill that reports eight quotes with the verb in brackets, and a chat in which you receive feedback on a demo and give some back. Its other exercises are locked.

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